Lean & Learned
How I structure my day as a skinny girl who used to be fat
Letâs be honestâwhen I was fat, my days revolved around food. Wake up? Had to have breakfast. Bored? Mindlessly snack. Social event? The cheese platter hated to see me coming. Watching TV? Snackssss. Full? Who cares, keep eating and finish the plate. I had zero structure, and my body showed it.
Now? I run on autopilot. The skinny mindset is locked in, and my days are effortless because I no longer let food control me.
Hereâs how I structure my day to stay lean, stay in control, and never feel deprived.
đŠ Water First â Always
As soon as I get out of bed in the morning (well, once my retainers are out) I chug water.
Fat me? Sheâd roll out of bed and go straight for a milky coffee with sugar and a couple of slices of toast. Then sheâd wonder why she was starving by 10 AM and needed a âlittle somethingâ to hold her over until lunch (which turned into a muffin, a scone or some crackers).
Now? I hydrate first. Not only does it wake me up, but it keeps fake hunger in check. Half the time, when you think youâre hungry, youâre just thirsty.
đœ No Set Eating Times â I Eat When Iâm Actually Hungry
Fat me? She ate like it was scheduled programming
Breakfast at 7 AM, snack at 10 AM, lunch at 12 PM, snack at 3 PM, dinner at 6 PM, after dinner snacks at 8 PM. Even if I wasnât hungry, I ate because the clock said it was time to eat.
Now? I listen to my body.
Some days, I eat breakfast. Some days, I donât. It depends on when my stomach actually rumbles. Not boredom, not routine, not âbut itâs breakfast time!ââjust real hunger.
I donât force-feed myself just because âyou should never skip breakfastâ (lies). I donât eat snacks âjust in caseâ I get hungry later. If my body isnât asking for food, I donât give it food.
This is a HUGE mindset shift that changed everything for me.
đ„© Protein & Fibre First
Every meal I try to think protein first, fibre second.
Old me? Iâd grab a bagel, a muffin, or a bowl of cereal because it was easy and âyummy.â Then Iâd wonder why I was starving an hour later.
Now? I eat with intention.
â Protein keeps me full
â Fibre keeps digestion moving
â Together, they kill cravings
đ¶ââïž Get My Steps In
Skinny people move moreâitâs just a fact.
When I was overweight, I sat all day. I drove everywhere. Iâd avoid movement unless it was required. The idea of walking just for the sake of it? lmaaaaaao.
Now? I walk dailyânot as a workout, but as a baseline for being a functional human. Steps add up, keep me lean, and clear my head. I donât stress about âperfectâ workoutsâI just move.
If Iâve been sitting for hours, I get up. If I have the choice between an escalator or stairs? Stairs. If I need to grab something from the store a couple of blocks away? I walk. It all adds up.
đœ No More Overeating â I Stop Before Iâm Stuffed
Fat me? She ate until she was beyond full. Uncomfortably stuffed. The kind of full where you have to unbutton your jeans and sit there like a beached whale.
Now? I stop eating before I feel stuffed.
Once I feel satisfiedânot full, just goodâI put the fork down. I donât need to clean my plate. I donât need to âmake the mostâ of a meal. I eat just enough and move on with my day.
đĄ The Bottom Line
The way I structure my day now isnât complicated. Itâs simple, intentional, and automatic.
- đ§ Water first.
- đœ Eat when actually hungry.
- đ„© Protein & fibre at every meal.
- đ¶ââïž Get steps in.
- đ„ Stop eating before Iâm overfull.
No obsessing, no tricks, no dietsâI eat whatever I want, I just use habits that keep me lean effortlessly.
If youâre still structuring your day like a fat person, guess what? Youâll stay fat. Change your mindset, change your habits, and the weight will follow.